Hi, my name is Marloes Stam and I live in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. On this website, I will share my journey to live a more happy and meaningful life. A life with intention.
Why? I felt overwhelmed. Overwhelmed with options, stuff, trash. It felt like I was busy constantly. Busy consuming, busy chasing the next best thing, busy keeping up. Not busy with the most important thing: living my life.
I graduated my Master in Politics in 2015 and thought I had checked all the right boxes up until that point. Finishing high school with good grades, check. Interning at the Dutch Embassy, check. Backpacking to ‘find yourself’, check. Studying a semester abroad, check. Publishing my Master research, check.
There I was. Graduated my degree at age 23 and now I could finally start my ‘real life’, right? Weird thing was that I didn’t feel a sense of relief or excitement. Don’t get me wrong, I feel very fortunate I could experience all that. But I remember feeling lost. Completely lost.
I was stuck with the question we all face at one point in our life: What makes me truly happy? To be honest, I had no clue. I definitely knew that staring at a computer screen for 8-hours a day wasn’t something I wanted to pursue. Partying till 5 am every weekend didn’t do the trick either.
There must be something. Something that can truly make me happy?
I discovered it wasn’t just something, it was a way of living. Living with more intention. Doing the things that truly fit your values and beliefs. I have to thank Lauren Singer, the Minimalists and Tony Robbins for advocating their best lives and inspiring me to do the same. This is my attempt.